Someone want to tell me why one mother can have 10 of her 11 kids in a store and have them all behaving no whining, no crying, no oh let me have this or that and a mother with just one can’t.  Theses 11 kids  stayed close to were mom, dad and each other where the whole time.  No one had to go chasing after one because they went off on their own and the oldest boy an obvious teenager was carrying his baby sister the whole time.  And oh yeah mom is pregnant with #12.    I can tell you part of the reason, actually probably all of the reasons.  First mom is a stay at home mom who spends her time with the children she has brought into this world and dad is the one who goes out and provides for his family.  They were probably taught at a young age how to behave in public and not cause scenes, unlike the mom who got tired of her little one crying in the shoppping cart so she put him on the floor to play with the ribbon on the selves that actually were for sale.  I’d bet anything these kids are homeschooled and have a very deep religious grounding.  All in all probably raised the way all kids should be, not necessarily the homeschool part but the look out for you sisters/brothers no matter what and a faith in God.  Mind your parents in public and don’t pitch fits and beg for stuff you know you can’t have or don’t need. I could go on and on about what I see has a large problem in today’s society when it comes to the care, feeding and raising of our youth today.  I guess having raised 3 boys to adulthood fairly successfuly makes me a bit of an expert in this area.  The youngest is still a work in progress but he will find his way soon (I hope ).